Tracking down an Absent Father

[Nikose Tyris]

The Story goes as follows.

My girlfriend just recently discovered that her mother was married to another man before she was born- and seeing as she was fatherless for the first 7+ years of her life, we've got a good chance of this being her real father. She's interested in tracking him down, and I'm trying to help too.

Rachel: "Actually, I think I'd like to beat him to death."

So, I'm going to provide what information I can, and hopefully the people of NPF would like to stalk him down alongside me!


Info redacted at Nikose's request. -Meister

We have no other information then this, so far.

If anyone can help, give advice, I'd be very grateful. Thank you!

[shiney]

Rachel: "Actually, I think I'd like to beat him to death."

If her mother didn't mention this man at all until recently, it sounds somewhat likely that maybe, just maybe, he wasn't the only one who was involved in the decision for him not being a part of her life? My dad wasn't a part of my life at all until I was 13, and then I came to find out he had been paying child support the entire time, and tried to contact me. He showed me a box full of returned christmas, birthday, random occasion cards. So I dunno, your girlfriend may want to do some actual family research before deciding this guy is a horrible person or taking her mom's word for it.

That said, there are companies and people-finding agencies and such available for this kind of action. If she's serious, and dedicated, she needs to look into that. Companies like Lexis-Nexis (credit search agency) and such, though a lot of them are based on social security numbers and probably not very applicable to Canadians.

However, if she's insistent that she wants to beat him up or if this is going to be some kind of witch hunt, not so much. I'd prefer if NPF weren't used as some kind of manhunt organization, and to that end I am actually going to do something of a jerk move here and close this thread. I'm sorry to do it, but this really is not the proper place for this kind of request, and I don't want the forum involved in hunting down people. If you want to make this request to your friends in private or at your Parker comics thing place, obviously no objections here.

But yeah, not NPF.

Sorry dude.