Love is, indeed, a many splintered thing.

froofmyster · 06-08-2004, 04:46 PM

There's this girl I know, and we all know where this is going. To the point: I've had feeling for her for the last year and a half or so and it's getting serious. At least on my side. I want to know if she has the same kind of feelings for me. I'm not about to walk up to her and say "Gawrsh, dus u liek me?" To insensitive. Same for e-mail and phone. Snail mail might be possible. I really don't know WHAT to do. Sometimes she's really nice to me, other times she treats me like dirt. So... confused...

Martyr · 06-08-2004, 04:59 PM

She treats you like dirt?

Example please.

Generally though, the best way to talk to a girl is not to say. "Gosh, do you like me?" But, instead, "Hey, I want that beautiful booty in my 69 Chevelle! Stat!"

Er... I mean, if there's no hostility, then the direct approach is always the most efficient. She'll either say yes or no, there's no embarrassment, and time can go on. Best of all, most girls won't reject the direct approach, simply because there's no reason to. You leave yourself closed up so that they have to date you in order to find out whether they want to date you or not.

Remember, the absolute worst thing that can happen is that she says no and tells your friends. They'll all laugh with her and call you a loser, but, after the scharade is over, they'll only know that you're single. Then you're the target.

So it always works out pretty fairly.

froofmyster · 06-08-2004, 05:08 PM

Yeah. What bugs me is that I often come really close finding out without having to ask which would be ideal for me, seeing as I'm WAY too shy. We occasionaly lock eyes. Problem: She has this friend who follows her everywhere. Whenever this happens, her friend says something obnoxious and annoying like "Oh my god, what are you two doing?!" and then, being seventh graders, one of us leaves. Damn these high school "laws".

EDIT: By treats me like dirt I mean she's a total jerk around me. Somedays, she'll look at a drawing I'm making and tell me, even help me make it better, if not perfect. Other times, she'll tell me it blows and shove it in my face.

Dragonsbane · 06-08-2004, 05:32 PM

this means she likes you, but is confused about how to tell you or about whether or not you are the right sort of eprson for her. The obnoxious friend's purpose is to test whether you care enough about this girl to accept her annoying friends too......or she is just there to try and "protect" the girl from you.

froofmyster · 06-08-2004, 05:44 PM

Well, considering how much physical pain I endure at her friend's hands whenever I get close. DAMN, she hits hard. Whenever I refuse to leave I get smack across the back of my head. It hurts. If by five smacks I haven't left she starts shouting "stalker!" I hate her... I mean, I bought this girl VIP baseball tickets that I payed for with my own cha-ching. That's 72$ down the drain!

Swift Wang · 06-08-2004, 06:07 PM

Shes just angsty beause she doesn't have anyone that loves her. Remember that next time she smacks you. You should be extra nice to her but avoid her taking advantage of you by buying her things.

froofmyster · 06-08-2004, 06:16 PM

Actualy, I only did it once. We're both HUGE baseball fans and her parents couldn't bring her, so I did.

NOTE: She put her head on my shoulder on the way out. Being the idiot I am, I had the reflex to shrug that shoulder, bashing her head. She quickly told that she was tired and has a sore neck. I have a feeling she was lying but I could be wrong. I hate the seventh grade SO much...

MP37a · 06-08-2004, 07:53 PM

Actually my g/f was exactly like that to me before we started dating in way. We just kept going to places together and hanging out and it just clicked. So just ask her out. If her annoying friend gets involved go to his house and kick his ass first. haha Sounds like she does like you though. She's just unsure.

froofmyster · 06-08-2004, 08:10 PM

I said it before: I hate the seventh grade. We're over the stage where we go "ewww!" whenever somebody says the word "love", but not at the age where we can adresse it. It's annoying. The most annoying part is when you're aware of it and dammit, I am! We live on opposite sides of the island of Montreal, don't have any classes together, and can only meet where that friend can find us. I hate it!

Today was a "buzz off, ass" say. Pissed me off.

MP37a · 06-08-2004, 08:15 PM

Montreal is an island? Wow I never knew that. haha Gonna have to remember that.

Well you could try to tell her to buzz off. Sometimes if you ignore a girl that's when they will really pay attention to you.

06-08-2004, 04:46 PM	#1
froofmyster Call me Kardin. Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Posts: 868	Love is, indeed, a many splintered thing. There's this girl I know, and we all know where this is going. To the point: I've had feeling for her for the last year and a half or so and it's getting serious. At least on my side. I want to know if she has the same kind of feelings for me. I'm not about to walk up to her and say "Gawrsh, dus u liek me?" To insensitive. Same for e-mail and phone. Snail mail might be possible. I really don't know WHAT to do. Sometimes she's really nice to me, other times she treats me like dirt. So... confused... __________________ "I am Phil the Prince of Insufficient Light! I Darn you to Heck!" Phil, Prince of Insufficient Light Dilbert Come and join my roleplaying forum! The RolePlay Zone!

06-08-2004, 04:59 PM	#2
Martyr Whatever Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Around. Here, there... Posts: 838	She treats you like dirt? Example please. Generally though, the best way to talk to a girl is not to say. "Gosh, do you like me?" But, instead, "Hey, I want that beautiful booty in my 69 Chevelle! Stat!" Er... I mean, if there's no hostility, then the direct approach is always the most efficient. She'll either say yes or no, there's no embarrassment, and time can go on. Best of all, most girls won't reject the direct approach, simply because there's no reason to. You leave yourself closed up so that they have to date you in order to find out whether they want to date you or not. Remember, the absolute worst thing that can happen is that she says no and tells your friends. They'll all laugh with her and call you a loser, but, after the scharade is over, they'll only know that you're single. Then you're the target. So it always works out pretty fairly. __________________ Behold the Nightmare

06-08-2004, 05:08 PM	#3
froofmyster Call me Kardin. Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Posts: 868	Yeah. What bugs me is that I often come really close finding out without having to ask which would be ideal for me, seeing as I'm WAY too shy. We occasionaly lock eyes. Problem: She has this friend who follows her everywhere. Whenever this happens, her friend says something obnoxious and annoying like "Oh my god, what are you two doing?!" and then, being seventh graders, one of us leaves. Damn these high school "laws". EDIT: By treats me like dirt I mean she's a total jerk around me. Somedays, she'll look at a drawing I'm making and tell me, even help me make it better, if not perfect. Other times, she'll tell me it blows and shove it in my face. __________________ "I am Phil the Prince of Insufficient Light! I Darn you to Heck!" Phil, Prince of Insufficient Light Dilbert Come and join my roleplaying forum! The RolePlay Zone! Last edited by froofmyster; 06-08-2004 at 05:26 PM.

06-08-2004, 05:44 PM	#5
froofmyster Call me Kardin. Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Posts: 868	Well, considering how much physical pain I endure at her friend's hands whenever I get close. DAMN, she hits hard. Whenever I refuse to leave I get smack across the back of my head. It hurts. If by five smacks I haven't left she starts shouting "stalker!" I hate her... I mean, I bought this girl VIP baseball tickets that I payed for with my own cha-ching. That's 72$ down the drain! __________________ "I am Phil the Prince of Insufficient Light! I Darn you to Heck!" Phil, Prince of Insufficient Light Dilbert Come and join my roleplaying forum! The RolePlay Zone!

06-08-2004, 06:07 PM	#6
Swift Wang Nomad Patriot Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: South FL Posts: 21	Shes just angsty beause she doesn't have anyone that loves her. Remember that next time she smacks you. You should be extra nice to her but avoid her taking advantage of you by buying her things. __________________ "Swift as the breeze, my Wang in the trees" - Holy Ninja Bible

06-08-2004, 06:16 PM	#7
froofmyster Call me Kardin. Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Posts: 868	Actualy, I only did it once. We're both HUGE baseball fans and her parents couldn't bring her, so I did. NOTE: She put her head on my shoulder on the way out. Being the idiot I am, I had the reflex to shrug that shoulder, bashing her head. She quickly told that she was tired and has a sore neck. I have a feeling she was lying but I could be wrong. I hate the seventh grade SO much... __________________ "I am Phil the Prince of Insufficient Light! I Darn you to Heck!" Phil, Prince of Insufficient Light Dilbert Come and join my roleplaying forum! The RolePlay Zone!

06-08-2004, 07:53 PM	#8
MP37a Sacred Samurai Gunslinger Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Wellsville, Ohio Posts: 643	Actually my g/f was exactly like that to me before we started dating in way. We just kept going to places together and hanging out and it just clicked. So just ask her out. If her annoying friend gets involved go to his house and kick his ass first. haha Sounds like she does like you though. She's just unsure. __________________ "I'm going to wrap you in bacon, and throw you on the grill!!"

06-08-2004, 08:10 PM	#9
froofmyster Call me Kardin. Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Posts: 868	I said it before: I hate the seventh grade. We're over the stage where we go "ewww!" whenever somebody says the word "love", but not at the age where we can adresse it. It's annoying. The most annoying part is when you're aware of it and dammit, I am! We live on opposite sides of the island of Montreal, don't have any classes together, and can only meet where that friend can find us. I hate it! Today was a "buzz off, ass" say. Pissed me off. __________________ "I am Phil the Prince of Insufficient Light! I Darn you to Heck!" Phil, Prince of Insufficient Light Dilbert Come and join my roleplaying forum! The RolePlay Zone!

06-08-2004, 08:15 PM	#10
MP37a Sacred Samurai Gunslinger Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Wellsville, Ohio Posts: 643	Montreal is an island? Wow I never knew that. haha Gonna have to remember that. Well you could try to tell her to buzz off. Sometimes if you ignore a girl that's when they will really pay attention to you. __________________ "I'm going to wrap you in bacon, and throw you on the grill!!"