02-10-2009, 11:49 PM | #61 | |
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Look, I'm not saying it's right or that I in any way agree, but I AM saying I can a least see why they're bitching. Nobody likes losing their standard of living.
Twiddy, your mother is living proof that America does offer social mobility, and that's something that everyone can be thankful for. She's earned it. But you can't tell me that people who have money to start with don't have a head start on making more, and I highly doubt that you mom has absolutely no connections now that she's in the professional world. I mean, obviously, she's not spending her time milking cows or harvesting corn, and while she might still have friends who are, those aren't the people who have the most bearing on her career. I'm willing to bet she has connections with other medical professionals now, be they doctors, pharmacists, or hospital management of some sort. In the business world, you have to shmooze at least a little. Edit: P.S. I realize my little anecdote was on the extreme end. It was meant to be. Helps drive the point better. Trust me when I say I was considering making it far worse with things like cat food and a rat-infested hole of an apartment, but I figured that would just tick people off.
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02-10-2009, 11:50 PM | #63 |
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Blue, I think "The government won't give me enough money to meet social class standards" is an okay excuse to not meet social class standards.
I mean, what, are they going to become the laughingstock of Richy-McRicherrichsonville because they aren't allowed to make enough money to be quite that rich? If all they are upholding is an image, then I doubt it. However, if there is other business going on that maybe shouldn't (Or should, I guess, but that's not the point I'm making)? Yeah, it would be an issue. |
02-10-2009, 11:52 PM | #64 | |
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02-10-2009, 11:57 PM | #65 | |
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02-10-2009, 11:59 PM | #66 | |
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Even less so during a recession. Generally, I think people expect CEO's to act like Warren Buffet; one of the richest men in the world, yet still humble and living (relatively) simply. |
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02-11-2009, 12:06 AM | #67 | ||
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As for country clubs, I was just using that as an example. I assure you, you'd know if she belonged to one, because the entire point is to actually go there in your free time to connect/shmooze/do business on the napkins/whatever. Technically speaking, as far as I've heard, doctors are actually considered upper-middle class, which surprised the heck out of me, but whatever, so that kind of profession is probably on the cusp of that sort of thing? When it comes to CEOs, there's probably a bit less of a divide on who belongs to one and who doesn't.
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02-11-2009, 12:12 AM | #68 | |
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Edit: Yeah, I dunno, Blue. Your analogy just doesn't work from our end of things. There's a huge difference between going from 750k to 500k and going from 40k to 20-30k. There's a point at which the actual numbers don't matter for any reasonable concern, and exist solely for bragging rights; and that's what I'm seeing your anecdote as boiling down to. It seems that you think their bragging rights are important for them to do their jobs. I mean, look at it this way: Say you can play Crysis at 60 fps. Someone comes along and brags about playing at 120 fps. Boo freakin' hoo. You couldn't tell the difference between the two without looking it up. Now, you can, of course, tell the difference between 5 fps and 20 fps. In the same manner, sure, the people cut to 500k salaries won't be able to afford as many shiny baubles and expansive homes... But how many shiny baubles can they wear in a year? How many expansive homes do they need to occupy from month to month? Compare that to how much the people in your anecdote need better food and more comfortable living arrangements... I just don't see a proper analogy here. Last edited by Marelo; 02-11-2009 at 12:30 AM. |
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02-11-2009, 12:37 AM | #69 | ||
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Also; Bluestar, I think the system your describing is sort of the problem though, isn't it? You get more respect/connections based on your money penis rather than how much you help people or how proficient you are in your field? I think there's something not ok with that. I guess I can understand and sympathize with any individual in a high-pressure social situation, but I think that entire attitude about money is just far too askew.
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