What do women enjoy conversing about?

[Brainmeats]

Brainmeats 10 rules for successful dating:

1.) Don't go somewhere on the first or second date where you have to talk non-stop. Movies or activities where you are busy a lot helps. Once you've gone through the whole picking out movies together or attempting to put-put your way through the golf course, you both should know a little bit about each other. Enough at least to start a conversation some other time. You can see her quirks here too. What kind of movies does she like? Horror... Comedy... Anime... sappy ones??? I mean seriously think about it while during these first few dates.

2.) Don't let it be all one sided. You both should be talking... not all you.. not all her. She should be trying to get to know you too.

3.)If it comes up, go ahead and tell her what games you like or what movies you like.... but do not... i repeat DO NOT go crazy and talk about nothing else the rest of the night. Nothing is more boring than listening to a guy talk about his charactors or deck of cards if you know nothing about the game. The only exception to this rule is if she keeps pressing it. If she wants to talk about it.. go for it.. otherwise... well... don't drag it on forever.

4.) Complement her on something. All girls like to be complemented. Keep it light at first. Nice shirt... pretty hair... nothing major. Later on you can go for the OMG your eyes are beautiful... but that might scare her away at first. And for the love of all things good in this world... do not complement her butt, boobs or other such areas right off. She needs to know you see her more than just those parts.

5.) be yourself. dont lie. it'll just piss her off. just calm down.. take a breath... and be yourself.

6.) dress for the occasion. if you are going to a nice restaurant... dont go in torn jeans and a stained T with an unshaven face and messed up hair. there is nothing more embarassing... unless you are meeting her parents like that. she wants to be able to show you off too. later on when ya'll are just hanging out together she may not care... and i dont mean dress pants and a tie here either. as i said... dress for the occassion.

7.) be confident but not overly so. look her in the eyes... not at your shoes. look in the mirror before you go on the date and say something nice about yourself... get you in the confident mood i guess... dang you look good tonight! lol just dont be a butt about it.

8.) No politics or religion unless she brings it up... which she shouldnt but dont you do it! These topics are too deep for the first few dates. Save them for when the relationship gets going pretty good.

9.) Keep your hands off the places you are thinking about putting them. Hands and arms are ok for the first date. no where else. no girl (cept hookers) want to feel like you see them as just some little sex toy. Its just not a look we are going for.

10.) when you pick her up.. yes you should go pick her up for you extremely new to dating peoples....do not just sit in the car and wait on her. Get off your lazy butt and go to the door dang it. And when you take her back home... walk her to the door. and dont think she owes you that famous kiss goodnight. Give her three dates at least. After that... if you havent gotten any kisses.... try for it. Dont be all crazy about it. Just a little kiss on the cheek or hand will do. Who knows... she may want to kiss you and be scared to.


Other than that... just remember that we are people too. Any sane girl can overlook some mistakes so if you make one... dont freak out and give up. Keep doing your best and remain confident in yourself.