What do women enjoy conversing about? - Page 2

musicalmechanic · 12-11-2006, 08:16 PM

My rule of thumb is to say things that you think will make them smile. Humor is your friend. The more you can make them smile, the more they may like you.

Don't be sappy, way too many guys out there like that. And pick creative dates, not just the dinner-and-a-movie deals. Go bikeriding together. Have a picnic. Bowling can be a blast.

On a side note, you can always invite her over to play with your Wi....ne'mind.

Just. So. Wrong.

Krylo · 12-11-2006, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by musicalmechanic

On a side note, you can always invite her over to play with your Wi....ne'mind.

Actually that's been working for me for the last 8 years.

Lady Cygnet · 12-11-2006, 08:43 PM

People in general are a lot like snowflakes--no two are exactly alike. If you find yourself running low on conversation material, ask her about her hobbies, her interests, her goals, etc. Chances are, if you were attracted to her enough to go out in the first place, you'll find some common interest that you can chat about. If all else fails, going to see a movie will give you something to discuss after the show.

Above all, be honest and be yourself. =)

BlackMageGirl! · 12-11-2006, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady Cygnet

People in general are a lot like snowflakes--no two are exactly alike. If you find yourself running low on conversation material, ask her about her hobbies, her interests, her goals, etc. Chances are, if you were attracted to her enough to go out in the first place, you'll find some common interest that you can chat about. If all else fails, going to see a movie will give you something to discuss after the show.

Above all, be honest and be yourself. =)

Quoted for truth. =D

Kei-Kun · 12-11-2006, 09:25 PM

I just always feel kinda awkward "romantically"...I'm fairly good at the making friends part, but not the moving on towards anything more than that...I dont see how you people pull these things off >_<

I blame my inherit randomness that seems to have become fused to me. Lots of things I throw out if the conversation starts to pitter out is very hit-or-miss (with more missing that hits, need more dexterity...)

And of course, anyone who knows me, knows I'm fairly crazy, and can spout off some stuff that, for some reason, you havn't heard before... >_>

Krylo · 12-11-2006, 10:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Kei-Kun

I dont see how you people pull these things off >_<

Confidence and good looks.

Seriously, they're the only two things I have going for me. I'm geeky as hell, more arrogant than a bond villain, an insurmountable ass, and I intrinsically ignore the mores of modern society.

Yet I can get me some ass.

Ergo: Confidence and good looks.

P-Sleazy · 12-11-2006, 10:45 PM

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Two-thirds of the way through is when you whip out your Yu Gi Oh deck and challenge her to a duel.

Worked for me. No seriously, I didn't challenge her to a duel, but I found out that her brother plays and that he forced her to play him sometimes.

Other than that, do something that can keep a conversation going, like going mini golfing. Thats a great place to talk, have fun, and do shit all at the same time! Plus, we really sucked at Minigolfing.

EDIT: oh and here's a thread that has questions already written out for you!

http://www.nuklearforums.com/showthread.php?t=12307
Just for the love of god, stay away from the ten I posted. You'll thank me when you don't.

pictish · 12-11-2006, 10:47 PM

What Krylo says.

Except, I don't even have the good looks to ride. Sheer confidence and wit to success. Hell, females aren't any different from guys, if you both talk about stuffs you're interested in, you'll hit it off =3 Don't take this 'woman = different spieces' attitude and it's all okies ^^

adamark · 12-11-2006, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by musicalmechanic

My rule of thumb is to say things that you think will make them smile. Humor is your friend. The more you can make them smile, the more they may like you.

Shit, I tried that and was accused of sexual harassment. Oops! Some people don't have the same sense of humor I do. LOL

Demetrius · 12-12-2006, 12:02 AM

There is also just the fact that some chicks won't dig you, don't accept defeat and freak out. Also the thinking too much and over-analyzing is bad, say what you mean when you mean it, you look dishonest or often sketchy when you have the pause and think going on.

12-11-2006, 08:16 PM	#11
musicalmechanic Short....and good at it Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Ohio Posts: 231	My rule of thumb is to say things that you think will make them smile. Humor is your friend. The more you can make them smile, the more they may like you. Don't be sappy, way too many guys out there like that. And pick creative dates, not just the dinner-and-a-movie deals. Go bikeriding together. Have a picnic. Bowling can be a blast. On a side note, you can always invite her over to play with your Wi....ne'mind. Just. So. Wrong. __________________ Regret nothing, remember everything. ~ Michael Buonauro ~

12-11-2006, 09:25 PM	#15
Kei-Kun Insanity is Relative Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: My Mind Posts: 40	I just always feel kinda awkward "romantically"...I'm fairly good at the making friends part, but not the moving on towards anything more than that...I dont see how you people pull these things off >_< I blame my inherit randomness that seems to have become fused to me. Lots of things I throw out if the conversation starts to pitter out is very hit-or-miss (with more missing that hits, need more dexterity...) And of course, anyone who knows me, knows I'm fairly crazy, and can spout off some stuff that, for some reason, you havn't heard before... >_> __________________ "Insanity is the only sanity." "IMHO, there is to LITTLE war. I want to see some damn chaos in this game, and by golly I will have it!" ~Me~ .:\|RaiRO Character\|:. Wizzardeh: Moridin (73/42) ~Moridin do be the Desciple of Loki, killing for the Land Pirates! Arrr...~

12-12-2006, 12:02 AM	#20
Demetrius In need of a vacation Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Peoples Republic of Vermont Posts: 3,236	There is also just the fact that some chicks won't dig you, don't accept defeat and freak out. Also the thinking too much and over-analyzing is bad, say what you mean when you mean it, you look dishonest or often sketchy when you have the pause and think going on. __________________ DFM, Demon seed of Hell who fuels its incredible power by butchering little girls and feeding on their innocence. Demetrius, Dark clown of the netherworld, a being of incalculable debauchery and a soulless, faceless evil as old as time itself. Zilla, The chick. ~DFM Wii bishie bishie kawaii baka! ~ Fifthfiend

12-11-2006, 08:43 PM	#13
Lady Cygnet Hasn't changed her avatar in years Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Beyond Thunderdome Posts: 1,234	People in general are a lot like snowflakes--no two are exactly alike. If you find yourself running low on conversation material, ask her about her hobbies, her interests, her goals, etc. Chances are, if you were attracted to her enough to go out in the first place, you'll find some common interest that you can chat about. If all else fails, going to see a movie will give you something to discuss after the show. Above all, be honest and be yourself. =)